I've had this experience since UNI days when the girl I was dating told me about what her GF's had been talking about. After you make it to the bedroom, the fun of trial and error can finally begin!
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You can also use a condom.
Fast movements should only be made by experts, because though it may not seem so, the rectum is much more fragile than the vagina.
I know total freaks that cringe at the thought of something poking around up there.